Avoid asking because nobody’s there for you anyway and you can’t cope with hearing another no for an answer
You were invited to a senior school reunion by those b*tches in class
Ladylove, you have a heart of gold and are a very thoughtful, caring woman.
Without batting an eyelid, you’d go out of your way to help others in need. It’s your mission to make others happy when they’re feeling down.
You are fun, friendly, and social. Others naturally gravitate towards you.
Taking on the role of the peacemaker, you are great at de-escalating and resolving conflicts.
In an emergency, you are reliable and level-headed. Others know they can rely on you and keep you on speed dial.
You are driven by a desire for approval and struggle with saying ‘no’.
Agreeing to do things you don’t want to do, you often over-commit yourself. You eventually lose sight of your own unmet needs. Over time you feel upset about being taken advantage of.
You’ll pretend to agree with others to avoid alienating them or creating conflict. This can leave you feeling awkward and inauthentic.
Intimacy and opening up on a deeper level can feel scary, making it difficult for others to really get to know you. Inside you feel lonely.
You’ve been known to raid the fridge, freezer, and pantry to avoid dealing with what you’re feeling.
Sparkling in your Radiance
When you keep giving in to others and not getting your own needs met, you progressively dim your light. You need to turn the love and care you give out to others back towards yourself.
Imagine living with your cup overflowing. You're deeply nourished by a balance of both giving and receiving in your life. You are lit up and radiating with joy.
Setting healthy boundaries will allow your radiance to authentically shine.
Firstly, you need to recognize your limits, then implement them and communicate them to others.
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Mediocrity is definitely not a part of your vocabulary. You’re a motivated, high achiever, setting high standards for yourself and others.
Known for your great organizational skills, you are very conscientious and consistent in all that you do.
You are brilliant at problem-solving, dealing with complex situations, and are persistent in the face of adversity.
Whether you are a more creative or practical woman, your attention to every detail is just outstanding.
You look impeccable, your home is neat and your family is well taken care of.
At work or school, you meet and often exceed others' expectations.
Your need to be in control creates a lot of stress inside and around you.
Fear and doubt can arise that you won’t live up to your own or others’ expectations.
Your tendency to judge or be critical of yourself and others (whether out-loud or silently) will put a strain on your relationships.
Anxiously getting things up to standard can make you sick to the stomach, especially before exams or deadlines, robbing you of your radiance.
It's not easy for you to trust others to ‘do it right’. You may find it hard to just stop, sit back and relax. Worrying thoughts can keep you up at night.
You know you are your own worst critic. Those criitical voices inside your head that keep pushing and punishing you, convince you that it's never enough.
Many perfectionists are worry-warts, often preoccupied with the past or 'what ifs' about the future, and that can make it hard to just enjoy the present moment.
Basking in your radiant perfection
Being in the flow would relieve your daily stresses. This will allow for more spontaneity and pleasure in what you do.
Trust that you will always deliver quality with your natural gifts for attention to detail. Letting go of expectations that things are 100% how you want them, will lighten your load.
Imagine basking in the beauty of knowing you’ve done your best. You've switched off, feel more relaxed, and at peace within yourself. As you surrender to the perfection of the present moment, your satisfaction will radiate through you.
Do you want to learn to work with these voices so they can no longer control you? ‘Healing your Inner Dialogue’, is a powerful Masterclass that will give you the tools.
ERVEDarling, you are a sensitive and loving soul, who is deeply attuned to others' pain. You intuitively sense what's going on and possess the ability to step into their shoes. You'll be attentive and go out of your way to help them.
Trustworthiness is your trademark. You have a strong moral compass, making every effort to complete tasks, and stick to your promises.
You have a generous heart and are a humanitarian. You'll dote on children and pets. Gifted with great listening skills, people often come to you for advice and you often take on the role of peacemaker to avoid conflict.
Sensitive to your surroundings, you thrive best in a peaceful environment. However, after a while, you tend to get restless.
You are drawn to the spiritual, mystical, and healing arts. Crystals and a regular dose of WOO are soul-food for you.
Like a sponge, you absorb a lot from others, easily ending up emotionally or energetically overwhelmed.
If someone needs your help, you focus so much on “feeling into” them that you often disconnect from yourself, ignoring your own needs in the process.
This can eventually lead to anxiety and burnout.
Others will often take advantage of you. It can feel like you’ve got no control over the situations or the problems you encounter. You often feel safer simply spending time alone.
Sensitive to rejection and criticism , you can take things quite personally and are easily hurt.
You may tend to blame others, believing it's all their fault. Sometimes you just need a good pity party. So bring out the violins!
Brilliant in your radiance
Develop healthy boundaries with others. It's so important to take responsibility for who you spend your time with and allow into your personal space. Begin noticing if you find something feels off. Walk away from situations that drain your energy.
Take time to replenish your nervous system with activities like meditation, yoga, or walks in nature.
Imagine what it would be like to feel safe in your own energy, claiming the power to create what works in your own world. As a sovereign queen, you are beaming brightly with the support of self-care.
'Self-love' is the secret source to replenishing your radiance. Take the 14-day Self Love Challenge as a gift to yourself and an affirmation of your worth.
Magnetic, confident, and charismatic, you are the life of the party. You love the attention, attracting many admirers with your smart attitude and sassy style.
You have high standards and enjoy the finer things in life. Life is never boring for you or those around you.
Courageous, cheeky, and fun, you go for what you want and know you deserve it. With the gift of the gab, you have the 'smarts' to get out of sticky situations.
People like knowing where they stand with you as you freely speak your mind. You won’t take any BS from anyone or leave them second-guessing about what you want or need.
You can be a drama queen when things don’t go your way. Hot n cold, dark n light, you can be high maintenance and exhausting for those around you.
You are the center of the Universe. So, when you’re on an emotional roller coaster, you'll take everyone with you.
Attention-seeking can alienate others and burn bridges between you. You tend to be reactive, can act without thinking, and speak without a filter.
Vulnerability is not your strong suit. You can act tough to cover it up, to avoid the risk of getting hurt. This can make it hard for people to get to know the real you and keep relationships more superficial.
Even though you do know what you want, you don’t always understand what you really need.
Dazzling without frazzling
Taking time for self-reflection will gain a deeper perspective on different situations in life.
Developing your emotional intelligence will aid you in expressing yourself and connecting to yourself and others.
Imagine being seen and accepted for who you truly are, without the need to make an impression. Your authentic self emerges and you are absolutely blown away by your own dazzling reflection.
Join my LIVE Masterclass 'Emotional Empowerment' and learn how to balance being true to yourself while building healthier relationships with others.